holding hands

Holding hands is a connecting activity; it not just connects people but also souls and links up emotions. Two people hold each others hand only when they are emotionally bonded. Considered as best cure for depression, loneliness and continues failures. Being human we all long for affection and holding hand is another way to show affection towards people you love.
When we are born our parents are the first one to hold our hands which gives us feeling of safety and protection. As we grow up we learn to walk by holding hands. At this time when our parents give us their hand, we are sure that nothing can happen to us. Second relation when we hold someone’s hand is friendship, it has got the most priceless value because here we learn to grow up socially. We learn to be there for each and every person. Then next we hold hands of our soul mate where we mite even skip some of our heartbeats. And finally we give our hands to our children to show that we care for them, to help them walk and face life.
This always has a very positive and serene effect in our life. Many a times we looses all our strength and hope…during moments when life tells us to back out, if at that time a close person connects to us, it can give us immense courage and feeling of security. It can transform a rat into napoleon, who fought even though after a series of failures.
It even cements our feeling, laying a very strong foundation for future relationship. We can converse silently by holding hand. Most important thing in a crisis is emotional support which gives the feeling of protection. So needless to say that holding hands fastens the healing process in case of situation like break ups. So before we end it up all here lets just determine to be present for people around us.

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  1. Holding hands is a beautiful phenomenon =P
    (:

  2. thoughtstoponderabout

    true..
    it always revives me to life

  3. Well, to tell you the truth… I’ve never really held hands with someone O.O Okay, maybe unconsciously with friends, but that’s it!!!! O.O

    • thoughtstoponderabout

      u knw it happnd with me last year..in june..i was going thru’ constant failure..i wasnt able to crack any entrance test..everything was so messed up..and i was so shattered that i thought of taking up courses which i was never interested in..i was left with just last entrance exam and i had no courage to face it..i tole my didi tht i dont wish to give that exam..that time she held my hand and just said “i have faith on u, u will b able to make it” and trust me that ignited a passion in me and i scored maximum in that test 🙂

  4. Hey…. Hey… it just came to me…. I’ve held the teeny weeny hands of babies quite a lot many times (:

    Beautiful (:

    • thoughtstoponderabout

      u knw it happnd with me last year..in june..i was going thru’ constant failure..i wasnt able to crack any entrance test..everything was so messed up..and i was so shattered that i thought of taking up courses which i was never interested in..i was left with just last entrance exam and i had no courage to face it..i tole my didi tht i dont wish to give that exam..that time she held my hand and just said “i have faith on u, u will b able to make it” and trust me that ignited a passion in me and i scored maximum in that test

  5. thoughtstoponderabout

    aww thts so cute..even i like holding hands of babies and my pet too (:

  6. Aaww… that’s such a sweet experience… your didi just doesn’t teach you good lessons… she also inspires you (:

    Pets…. na… I prefer holding babies’ hands =P

  7. M. M.

    “sense of victory”… Wow… How come? =P

  8. thoughtstoponderabout

    sense of victory as in..i knew i did sumthing which wasnt my cup of tea…and i knew tht it was end of all miseries…atleast for next few days 🙂

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