I find many people commenting upon ones behavior, nature and many other things. People act as dual core processor when it comes to judging different people. They just review a person by his looks or what the other person said.
I find it extremely irritating when I hear people talking such negative things. How can they judge someone like that? People have no idea of what a person has been thru or what is he going through and still they love to talk crap about him. Suppose if Mr. Xyz avoid spending much then people will derive a simple conclusion that he is a miser but there could be a possibility that he is going thru financial crunch. Or in other case if Mr. xyz is not happy and seems depressed then people would say they he is a sadist or rather he is a negative person and lets maintain gap with him, but there could also be a possibility that he just lost his loved one. So instead of being judgmental why can’t we support him? Don’t we remember how we felt when we lost a loved one? Mr. Xyz is going thru same phase and needs emotional support. Do you think it’s right on people’s part to be so judgmental? Obviously it’s not. Because even u could have been a target of this. When you judge someone, you do not define them, you define yourself. Still if you want to judge them then judge them by the reputation of his foes.
So I am requesting u all to not to judge people until and unless you have lived their life because you don’t know about little things which he have been thru. And all such mean comments have a great potential to hurt someone. And it’s true that ever wound leaves all scar.